The True American Dream, A Prototype of the 21st Century Way of Life

OUR PROBLEM IS A UNIVERSAL PROBLEM

These are the facts about TRUE LOVE and AMERICAN DREAM:

 

1.    Most people in America believe that they understand the meaning/ concept of True Love, but in reality, they do not understand it. The proof? The divorce rate in America is more than 50 %.  This high divorce rate proves that they understand/ practice more of the other concept: Self-Love.

2.    It is the media to be blamed. The media (movies, books, radios, tv, magazines, newspapers) confuses people with the wrong meanings of True Love and American Dream. ”I think I have found my True Love”, or “I fell in love with her at first sight”. Even Jane Burns understands, in the movie ‘Dan in Real Life’:”Dad, love is not a feeling, it’s an ability”. True Love is not a thing, person or feeling; it’s a divine concept of living. Only from understanding True Love fully, and from living/ practicing it completely (an ability), can we truly enjoy the power of it (a divine feeling). And ultimately, becomes a Force.

3.    Why do people in this world, between friends, lovers, families, neighbors, countries, have fights/ quarrels/ conflicts/ disagreements/ divorces/ wars today? The answers/ logic/ reasons are the same as to why couples lose passion with each other. A. Very simple and only one: they have different visions of love. B. They think that there could be several right answers/ solutions/ definitions to one question/ problem/ concept. C. In fact, everybody has his/ her own understanding of love, and everybody thinks that he/ she is right, that’s why there will always be fights/ disagreements between them. All of these are the faults of the media.

4.    The same way people have different visions of True Love, they also have different views/ definitions of the American Dream. For the past 2 hundred years, people in America have had many definitions of happiness, reflected by the many interpretations of the American Dream. Success from hard work. Financial security. Material comfort. Fame. American capitalism. Immigrants. Economic prosperity. Religious freedom.  

5.    Then again, why is it that some people have all the possessions in the world, yet they remain unhappy? Why is America the wealthiest, most advanced and most powerful country in the world, but it is also the unrivaled leader in divorce rate? Two logical explanations. One, what we previously aim as our American Dream never provides us with the highest altitude of happiness. In fact, the preceding concepts of the American Dream claim to be bigger, from one another, for every one of them was never defined to be the ultimate meaning, for the others, not to refute, or challenge, its supremacy. Two, the prior meanings/ pursuits of the American Dream have focused on the Outer Shell of things, Outside/ Material Success, or the Worldly Belongings/ Accomplishments, whose enjoyment is only temporary, but never on Thorough Success: Inside and Outside. 

6.    How can there have been many (meanings of) American Dreams? Because the right meaning/ concept of love has been believed to be many. But the meaning of the “True” American Dream? From our website/ foundation/ answers to you, we will prove to you, that by logic, there can be only one ultimate concept of the True American Dream: a way of life based on the highest conception of True Love, just as that True Love concept is the only one right, correct, ultimate, original, indisputable, universal, True way of loving in this world.

7.   There has been no school/ education curriculum/ book in history that tells/ defines/ explains the one ultimate meanings/ concepts of The American Dream and True Love. This is what the media/ education has not revealed, that True Love concept is a perfect code for living that covers and integrates all the ultimate concepts of:"True Ambition, True Happiness, True Marriage, True Relationship, True Parenting, True Friendship, True Purpose of Life, True Leadership, True Faith in God, and Kingdom of Heaven”=(10 Ideal Principles/ True Concepts).

THE SOLUTION

The goals of the True American Dream, universal, Code for living, or how we solve the Problem:

1.      A universal truth/ rule: one vision/ understanding of True Love unites and strengthens (makes people go to the same direction), while many visions divide (break people apart, make them go to different directions, or make them fight/ have disagreements). In other words, many right answers/ solutions to one question/ problem makes people fight. That's why it is of the utmost importance that people realize this truth: there can be only one right/ ultimate definition/ answer/ solution to every every concept/ question/ problem. So when you come into a disagreement, or when you lose passion between each other in a relationship, it's easy to solve this: don't waste your energy getting angry at each other, all you need is a third person as your mediator.

Our first purpose is to provide people with one ultimate/ right answer/ solution/ definition for their every one question/ problem/ concept, or to stop/ mediate fights, conflicts, divorces, disagreements between people (we are the third person), which also means to bring them closer together and more loving to each other. The key to unity, no fights, no quarrels, the highest level of happiness, the world’s unity and lovers’ perfect harmony: one vision of True Love. Less fights/ disagreements mean less costs not only to the people, but also to the government (wiser spending, more purposeful actions). Therefore True Love program (True American Dream Concept) promotes stronger and healthier Economy.

2.      By logic, there cannot be many or several meanings of love or True Love. There can be only one right and correct meaning to the True Love concept. In the beginning, God created a perfect concept called True Love as a manual for humans to live a truly happy life, for the use in finding and enjoying their divine state: as wise, as mature, as selfless, as happy, as complete, and as powerful as God. Yet humans are lured into believing that another concept, called Self-Love, or Selfishness, would bring a higher happiness, or more powerful state. In reality, the Devil, or the Fallen Angels, invented that Self-Love notion, to steal us from the very joy of life, whereas the end result is, we are tricked. Less power for us. Giving us a weaker foundation. Sadness, confusions (knowledge about marriage, parenting, relationships), stresses, problems, loneliness, hate, jealousy, fights, violence, wars, personality disorders in children, juvenile delinquency, sickness, etc....(the Derivatives of Self-Love). These are the indications that people are indeed unhappy and they don’t really understand/ practice True Love.

3.      To prove to people that the highest level of happiness and completeness as human beings will be reached by understanding and practicing True Love, fully. How? True Love will eliminate those problems above (the Derivatives of Self-Love). Proof? By logic, by understanding and practicing True Love concept fully, people will think of only one right, ultimate solution to every one problem (less headache), whereas Self-Love practice will cause people to think of many wrong solutions, instead of just one right solution (more headache). We will also prove that the misunderstanding of True Love, or the practice of Self-Love, causes people those problems (the Derivatives of Self-Love) and lessens the quality of and enjoyment to life.

4.      There has been no prior True Love concept written or published in history that covers and integrates the 10 Ideal Principles. There has been no prior American Dream concept in history that is based on the ultimate concept of True Love. There has been no prior American Dream in history that provides benefits and step-by-step instructions on how to achieve that “American Dream” belief, in order to reach the highest level of happiness and total completeness as human beings. Even the Bible does not conceptualize True Love in a definitive, explicit, and beneficial format. The Bible does not define how True Love integrates the 10 Ideal Principles (True Concepts). We provide that knowledge of True Love.

5.      Total enjoyment, and mastering all kinds of relationships: between a man and a woman, between parents and their children, between a human (creation) and God (its creator), and between a person and others (the world). Enjoyment comes not only from the beauty, but also the blessings. Self-Love brings people to the OUTER/ Shallow meanings of the 10 Ideal Principles, whereas True Love brings people to the INSIDE/ deepest meanings/ True Concepts (including the Total Enjoyment, Full Benefits, Blessings in life).

6.      To live like God: reaching our highest senses (the highest altitude of feeling Truly in love) and our Divine Capacity, utilizing our in-born Godliness, and enjoying the benefits of being like God.

7.      To create more awareness about the Power and Benefits of True Love: as wise, as mature, as selfless, as happy, as strong, as complete, and as powerful as (like) God.

8.      To build more happiness, contentment, a sense of purpose and direction in marriages, professions, actions, decisions, leaderships, relationships, friendships, and in lives.

9.      To form a stronger and happier next generation (our future children), and consequently, a happier world and a better place to live in

10.  All of the above makes up the perfect enjoyment and true richness in life, our wholeness as human beings, a Thorough (Inside and Outside) Success, or the Heavenly Possessions. So to reach being Truly in love is NOT a product of chance or meeting like the media wanted people to believe; it is the end product whose conditions are described above (The Strengthening of/ Finding the Soul).

True Love: a perfect concept, originally created as a manual for humans to live a truly happy life

First time in history, we will take an unprecedented approach to looking at the American Dream. Actually, there is one thing we can pursue that will give us the utmost happiness, something forever to enjoy. We have acknowledged the truth of this expression:”True Love is the most powerful Force in the universe”. Through our True American Dream Foundation, through our website, from your questions, we will provide you the proof, explanation, solution to your problems/ fights (all the logic, reasons, and common sense), in terms of everyday-life examples, why that expression is true-we will explore all the perfection, original design, and real structure of True Love.

Some people are lucky enough to find their soul mates, but many spend a lifetime never finding them. The logic? The word ‘Soul’ from the word ‘Soul Mate’, like True Love, is also a divine concept. “The soul at its highest is found like God, but an angel gives a closer idea of Him. That is all an angel is: an idea of God”-Johannes Meister Eckhart. Their own attitude prevents them from finding their soul mates. The common sense? How can people find their ideals (soul mates), if they don’t believe in and understand the ideals (divine principles or the highest meaning of things/ love)? What are the Ideal Principles?

Karen Goldman: "There is an unmistakable and profound reason why every culture, every religion, every nation down through the ages and in every part of the world extols angels as fit representations of one's highest conception of love and goodwill. They affect our highest senses, inspire our noblest thoughts, reflect our greatest aspirations.”

The real essence of angels is about the treasure of knowledge buried within, beyond the understanding of divine creatures: what is meant by a True and Unconditional Love-the foundation of the True American Dream Way of Life. There is no need for us to concentrate on looking for happiness at other places, because the above quote says it all: “Understanding the highest concept of love is nothing but understanding the whole mystery of the universe”.

True Love covers all aspects of life. For the past 10 years, I have been blessed, guided, and inspired by God to understand gradually the 10 most important concepts (Happiness, Leadership, Marriage, Passion, Parenting, Friendship, Purpose of Life, Romanticism, Destiny, Heaven). If you understand/ practice the concept of True Love perfectly, you will enjoy a perfect and divine living (the happiest, most powerful, and most complete state of living), since you would also reach the perfect meaning of those 10 flawless concepts. Those concepts (Ideal Principles) are part of the perfection, original design, and true structure in the True Love concept. Only by tracing love back to a divine Being (the original designer of the concept), learning the powers, the functions, investigating its features and benefits, the relation with other divine creations, can we finally assimilate the whole concept of True Love. Only by full understanding about those 10 Ideal Principles, can we reach the highest stage of being in love-the concept of Soul Mates.

What constitutes the whole mystery of the universe? Or what is the Power of True Love? True Love opens up the mystery of our power and creation, from its original, integrated, fun, and powerful design that incorporates True Leadership, True Happiness, True Purpose of Life, and True Strength. These are the qualities of True Love that make us reach our highest senses. True Happiness, or the highest feeling of happiness, is about our ability to utilize our in-born energies, talents, potentials for the happiness of other people (the world). True Leadership stands for the greatest and most powerful kind of leadership: making people trust, believe, and respect us, for our ability to make them humble, wise, and true leaders by example. The “True Purpose of Life” concept proves that we were all born to have the capacity, characteristics, and design like God-all the very reasons why we were created in His image.

True Love is the key to enjoying and mastering all kinds of relationships in life: True Passion, True Relationship, True Marriage, True Parenting, True Friendship and True Faith in God. These True American Dream Principles, those concepts with a prefix “True”, or the derivatives of True Love, are the truest versions, or the “Inside” meaning of the concepts of the world designed by God, specifically intended for our divine state (the happiest, most whole, and most powerful). They are flawless in design, come in perfect beauty, and function perfectly to bring us to that Godlike state (totally unselfish).

The more we understand and practice all this entire True Love design/ concept, the more we realize that we are capable to do much more in this world. Therefore, the greater our aspirations will be. If we reach our highest senses, if we have our greatest aspirations, are we not bound to reap the benefits of True Love? Are we not bound to be happier, more complete, and more powerful?

True Marriage is the most important, greatest, and most beautiful human relationship in anyone’s life on earth, because it is about the merging of two hearts, minds, bodies, and souls, into one force/ entity, 10 times more powerful, more complete, and happier than the two individual ones combined-Antoine de Saint Exupery. Yet many people in America don’t think that way. America’s high divorce rate proves Devil’s victory, in blocking its people from seeing and enjoying all the beauty there is to life (those greatest and True Concepts by God’s design), from reaching their true purpose, power, and wholeness as gods (amounts to reaching their highest senses: the highest level of feeling Truly in Love), and therefore from experiencing the greatest enjoyment and highest quality of life.

It took me 10 years to understand the whole concept of loving. Why so long? Because True Love is not an easy concept to absorb. We can understand the skin, but to reach the core when we can actually apply it to life? Or when we actually get to enjoy the power of True Love? It takes a divine process to digest a divine concept (True Love). That’s why, for me to go from the Outside to the Inside meaning of those 10 concepts, took a long and gradual process. Also, it is not easy to distinguish and choose between whispers by good angels and bad/ fallen angels (the Devil), or to be precise, between True Love (Selflessness) and Self-Love (Selfishness). Listening to the good angels is equivalent to reaping the benefits/ blessings of True Love: 

• inspirations of its meaning
• angels punched my head so hard that they made me realize that I had to be more unselfish. I realized that, all my life I have been selfish. How do I know that? Because if I had thought deeply and carefully, 95 % of my activities have been, 95 % of the time, mostly for myself alone:  eating, sleeping, going to work 9 to 5, going to the cinemas, concerts, museums, dancing, iceskating, etc. These are all for my own self-gratification-the love was aimed at me only.
• the dreams that made me continue, upon points of giving up
• there were days of coming home under the influence of alcohol, when I was tempted to do things I would have regretted the next day.

What could give me more happiness than experiencing all of those blessings-that my life is being led by God? How do I know that? Because dreams, inspirations, inner meanings, and “Inside” interpretations, are the domain of angels. And differentiating these voices-between good and bad-is about learning the nature of Self-Love concept, how to overcome it, and therefore to win our battle against Evil. True Love: you love other people more than you love yourself. Self-Love: you love yourself more than you love other people. All the quotes by most philosophers in the world on True Happiness/ Completeness, including the atheist ones, are nothing but total elimination of our Selfishness.

“True American Dream” Life is NOT where success and happiness are measured by the Outside of Things/ Worldly Belongings/ Accomplishments, or those things I pursued for my own ego; but whether I finally find my life to be truly meaningful, selfless, and the happiest possible, because I truly realize that every action I take every day must be done with an altruistic purpose. My True American Dream Happiness is not out there in the world, is not in those nice places I go to, is not in those nice things I have, but within myself. It’s a total realization that I have to put aside some of my hours every day, not for the happiness of myself, but for the happiness of as many people as possible. The aim? For a truly successful and happy life here on earth, and an everlasting life in heaven.

Many ideas came from the quotes of prominent leaders and philosophers, but mainly from God himself-from the Bible. You don’t have to be religious to believe in the Bible; its truth is very logical. The idea about this “True American Dream” concept came straight from God, Him and only Himself alone. I have been blessed to be chosen as His servant/ messenger to carry out His mission, for the greater happiness of the people in the world.